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Bachelorette Party, Wedding Payments, and Stress

April 4th, 2016 at 03:14 pm

My bachelorette party was amazing. I was wrong about the house-selling party, but it was more than a chill night in. They had a lingerie shower planned. Saturday was indeed a winery tour and a night out in the city, but they actually booked a hotel room downtown so we didn't have to worry about travel. They also surprised me with yoga pants with all of our titles. It was an absolutely amazing weekend, and I'm so grateful for those women.

DF should have between 3 and 4k this month which should cover the majority of our remaining payments. This is a huge sigh of relief since it puts us ahead of our remaining wedding payments schedule.

Someone pointed out that I get married next month, and now I'm trying not to freak out. I still have several little small details to figure out as well as 72 votive holders to decorate. Guys should all have their orders in in the next week or two. I got my dress back yesterday, but I need to take it to someone else for the cups and bustle. We need to write vows and finalize ceremony details. I hope everything turns out okay.

7 Responses to “Bachelorette Party, Wedding Payments, and Stress”

  1. pjmama Says:
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    Glad to hear the bachelorette party was a blast! Everything will get done in due time, don't worry! The important thing is that you're going to get married - whether those votive holders are decorated or not (or if they're done in a rush. haha). Just breathe Big Grin

  2. alice4now Says:
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    What an exciting time for you! Congrats!

  3. VS_ozgirl Says:
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    Happy to hear your bachelorette party was great!!! You will get everything done, just enjoy the process Smile

  4. debt-free by thir-ty Says:
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    Thanks everyone!

    @pjmama, DF tells me the same thing all the time. I realize that no ones pays attention to the little details, but I also feel like they contribute to the overall feel of the day. I can't remember anyone else's centerpieces, but I'd probably have noticed if they were underwhelming. I just can't wait for the day to get here! I've been breaking the remaining tasks down, so I feel better about getting it all done.

  5. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    Just the other night I was listing out everything I still have left to do in the next less than three weeks to Mr FT after he was complaining about how stressed he was ... and this is with me helping him with a huge project (which is putting me behind on what I need to do ...) What gets done will get done. As long as the marriage certificate gets signed, that's all that matters ... Big Grin That's what I keep telling myself at least. At some point I'll start believing it. Smile
    Glad your party weekend went well!

  6. debt-free by thir-ty Says:
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    FT, you're getting so close! I can't wait to hear all about it. DF has been dealing a lot with work stress pushing to make more money, so we can comfortably make all the final payments. I keep telling him we're okay, but he wants to be better than okay, so we're not worried the week of and can enjoy the few days we have after the wedding before returning to real life. Good luck these next few weeks!!

  7. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    Thanks! Good luck to you too!

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